If it doesn't feel good, it doesn't feel good, and people won't play it. That's how games are and always have been.
If you didn't care then, and you don't care now that's great, but we do.
Except it's not. Bigger battles are the exception, not the rule. Most fights you have are more than likely going to be relatively small and impromptu. Dueling and small scale pvp has always been a big part of Mortal Online, and due to the niche nature of the genre, it always will be. Even if there was more people in the game, 1 v 1s will always be a part of the culture, its just the nature of pvp'ers, we like to see how we stack up within and outside of our little tribes.