About the list, its the prime example of people should have control over what THEIR PERSONAL list is, and be allowed to adapt it and change it as they see fit, personally, my list would have very few words, and not words you would think they would be. But the game doesn't let me have control over what's offensive to me, I have to use what's offensive to them, or im shit out of luck.
I'm talking about universal offensiveness. Words deemed 'bad.' If you say those words, you're dumb and you deserve a ban. If those words just slip out of your mouth, maybe you are in fact bigoted or something. Dunno. Doesn't really matter. I don't think those sort of words have as much effect as some of the things you WOULDN'T get banned for that you can say, but that's another story. Point being IF you are spamming those words or IF you are making it your only goal in game to harass a person or people, why should you stay on? You would prol need to consult a therapist for general life reformation.