You "pvpers" are sad nobody leaves the GY so you have to go there to kill them, when in fact you are the problem in the first place.
I don't get murdered. haha, I try to not even think about it as murder, but I don't really get killed that much going around, even in MO1. Sometimes people attempt to go after you, but you can escape. Sometimes you run into a bad situation like 5 MAs or something. I don't think anyone is sad nobody leaves the graveyard because, as I said, I LOVE IT to go somewhere and SEE PEOPLE. I'm cool with being like hey need a sword and making someone a sword or w/e when they are using a shortie or a 1g wep. It's HUMAN INTERACTION WOW. Stop being afraid of people in this game. If someone comes in and starts fighting then fight them. They are probably just bored. They aren't getting gainz.
That's one of the reason I have a hard time actually killing and looting people because it's like I know I could get what they have prol much easier than they did, so it's not really fair. But people in the GY taking your heads might be playing mind games, but you gotta learn somehow to deal with it. If you keep going back they will probably stop fighting you, or you get a little pvp battle going in, sometimes someone jumps on the other side. That's what I dislike about Bakti is sometimes I'd like to jump on the other side cuz it's not even, but then everyone would be like EMDASH IS A PKER NOW. It's like ah I thought we were just having fun. Like when I walk into the bank and there are a bunch of people there and I say "Let's do some group fights!!" and nobody responds haha.
There are some real dickhead people in MO, no doubt, but in general it's not what you think, and to a lot of people it's a persona. It's an interesting psychological experience to deal with people in a sandbox, and in a way... that's what I like, that and mathy systems (of which there aren't cept alchemy which is zz gathering salvia,) plus it's already completely figured out, supposedly. But that's kinda the whole idea, to me, of a MMO is player interaction and since you can talk when you are dead (which is kinda a hack imo), you can be like... y u kill me tho? I mean actually start a conversation with these people. Most of them would be like ey bored tbh. Then you can be like oya brb lemme go to bank and I'm comin for ya. And you end up making a friend, even if they smash you over and over haha. That's why I dislike the rep system, too, cuz you can't do that as easily out of your own hometown. Ble.
If you really distance yourself from 'ego', I mean bears are not murderers but they've killed me way more than players have lool. You go out on foot, like esp back when they had excessive stacking and you could get an aggro that was just rip level if you're not paying attention. People are just people, and some of them like to present themselves as a really hard psychopath or whatever, but it's just a joke. They might really think that, but it's actually a joke like "lol." There are some real gems tho out there, few and far between, but again, I am interested in delving into those people's minds, too. In general, most are normal doods. Don't take it as an instant affront when someone attacks you or kills you. If they are supposed to be a friendly then you can be like y u kill me I'm a citizen! or if they aren't, you can be like oh so that's how it is. The GY is basically for pvp when you boil it down, it's where to learn to PvP, learn to zerg, learn to run away until your flag turns blue again. All the little griefy exploits are learned in the GY. There's no reason to shit on those people. Plus if you get their gear, you probably end up with a better haul than you would from zombies.
But yea people who are in the GY are just like mehhh waiting for something to happen, the ones of us who aren't true nubs, and you can tell who the tru nubs are, and I like to try to give them some form of gear so that they can at least increase their kill rate. I don't have any ulterior motives, I just want people to enjoy the game for what it actually is. There's nothing WRONG with pvp, but I personally don't feel good killing people, esp when it turns out they have a lot on them. It's like oh shit, now I feel bad cuz I just took this dudes life savings when I thought I was just gonna have a fun encounter. I mean I'M NOT GONNA LEAVE IT ON THE GROUND YAKNOW.
Some people have accepted dog eat dog and pvp whenever, but most of us aren't like that. Even the people who say they are pvpers. They know who else pvps and they are gonna go in on them, but like I said the larger guilds do not (generally) do stuff like grief the GY. There's just not much gain in it. One guy from a guild might come in and then others after if you give him enough problems. It's just basically like a near-town station for some chance of interesting content, and 4real sometimes it's just like man... I don't have the energy to do anything. I'll just throw on some shit gear and clade out and see what happens. And if shit actually starts going down then you can put on whatever you want. The GY is also pretty anti-mounted in a lot of cases, so it's good practice in many ways.
Don't let yourself be a victim. Don't think of murder. Be like "I got caught slipping" or something. It's disrespectful to kill people, especially the way people try to act sometimes after they put you in mercy mode, but o well. lol. It's a competitive game. Even the market is competition.
Also ITS STILL BETA. Might as well get your reps in now.